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Thursday, 30 July 2009

Female Orgasm -How to Make Her Orgasm Every Time

The Female Orgasm Number One Fact: Around 75 percent of woman don't reach orgasm during intercourse. This is not to say that 75% of woman won't reach orgasm at all, it just means that there is only a quarter of the female population that will reach orgasm during penetrational sex. Solving this situation means that woman either have to take their pleasure into their own hands or men have to stand up to the plate and become the lovers they are capable of becoming. Knowing a little about the female orgasm and taking your cue from the sex experts that work at Masters & Johnson, you can ensure that your lady becomes one of the fortunate few to have a lover that can take her to the heights of pleasure.

The four stages that the sex experts talk about are:

1) Excitement

2) Plateau

3) Orgasm

4) Resolution

Excitement

Lets start with the first step - getting excited. Woman and men are very much the same in this respect. When humans get excited, blood rushes to the genitals. In addition to the rush of blood, a womans clitoris will swell and her cervix and uterus will pull upwards and her body will begin to lubricate itself in anticipation. While this process takes place almost as quickly as the rush of blood for a male, there are very different things that will trigger a this sexual response.

Plateau

Although the word plateau has the implication of flattening out, this is really not the case. Just the opposite is true. Besides your heart rate increasing and your increased breathing, there is also an increase in blood in your genitals building pressure. Woman will react in exactly the same way and it's a great clue for you if you want to know that you are on the right track. Listen to her breathing and feel her heart rate and if there is little or no change, then you will want to go back a step and set off a few more of her sexual triggers.

Orgasm

Now this is where men and woman will react differently. Now men have something that is called a point of no return which means that no matter how hard they try, once that point has been reached, there is no stopping and no turning back. Woman don't have this mechanism. They require constant stimulation to achieve orgasm. If stimulation stops a second before a woman is about to climax, there is a pretty good chance that she won't climax at all.

Once you have achieved orgasm, the man is ready to relax and rest the body. Woman on the other hand will revert back to the plateau stage and can be taking though the climax stage numerous times. This is not easy for men to understand as the orgasm is usually considered the goal at the end of the game. For woman, a hat trick is how every game should be played. For woman, the first orgasm is also the least powerful, while each proceeding orgasm will increase in intensity. Unfortunately for most woman, reaching one orgasm makes them feel lucky, but with the right lover, she can and will achieve multiple orgasms and experience what her body is built to experience.

The Resolution

Finally we have the resolution which for most men begins after the Refractory stage, once their breathing has returned to a normal level. During the resolution stage endorphins will have filled a mans brain and he will blissfully fall asleep. Woman won't experience the refractory stage, but as soon as stimulation ends, they will begin the resolution stage. If a woman has been sexually satified, she will experience a rush of happy hormones called endorphins to her head and this will leave her with a warm fuzzy feeling. Woman who are sexually satified tend to be far more relaxed about other issues in their relatioships and regard their men in much higher esteem both as partners and as lover.

For all the information you want on how to be the best lover ever visit our information guide at Love-Talk.info We'll show you how to achieve the best results in bed and how to improve your abilities while increasing your size and stamina at the same time.

Wednesday, 29 July 2009

Love Talk - Good Sex Guide

Let's be real, men love sex . But there are very few men who can say that they are having the best sex that they can. And how is it possible to have the best sex ever? By using your brain. Only when you realise that the brain is the most powerful sex organ a man has, will you be able to have the sex you deserve. Men who invest time in thinking not just about the act of sex, but also what turns them on, what might turn on a woman, how different actions make you feel and what effect they have on others is one of the most overlooked aspects of becoming a dynamic lover.

Most men react to sexual situations instinctively and only on a physical level. If you happen to see a hot lady, the next thought is that you want to have sex with the hot lady. The transition from this reaction to mind blowing sex, means getting to know yourself better and not neccessarily just in the physical department. Getting to know yourself, means understanding what your purpose is as a sexual creature. Images of sex are everywhere these days. It's no longer late night television or porn magazines that are showing off larger and larger doses of female skin. And porn is so easily available and so commonplace that it's no longer hidden under the bed. Most men find all this very educational and are taking this information as their guide to what is normal. And although it's great to indulge in some of these quick satifsaction devices, it's really important that you explore why some images cause more arousal than others and how you can increase your arousal in order to get the best out of your sex life.

Let's talk more about that sexy woman we were talking about before. By now we are aware that you want to have sex with her, but to improve your sex life, you want to start asking yourself some questions:

* How do you want to touch her?
* How do you want her to touch you?
* What are you hoping to achieve during your encounter (besides orgasm)?

Answering these questions might seem a little wierd, but to get the most out of your sexual encounters and to achieve the status of 'best lover ever' you will want to know what turns you on and why. You'll also want to know how to get that information across to that hot lady. Having the confidence to know what turns you on and how and being able to communicate that to your partner will be great for both of you as woman love a man who knows what he's doing. For example, if you know that you love to perform oral sex, your partner is going to benefit from being in bed with a man that enjoys what they are doing and is going to give it their all.She may even have the pleasure of orgasming before you've even begin to get your rocks on. If on the other hand, this is not an act you enjoy, your partner is going to sense this and this is not good for either of you.

Having a good understanding of your own sexuality and what turns you on will help you tremendously with your confidence and your ability to enjoy sex within your own personal comfort zone. As sexy as some of the stuff in movies looks, not all of it works well in the outside world. Once you know what your sexual boundries are and how to talk about them to your partner confidently, you can work towards having the kind of sexual relationship that everyone wants.

The brain rules the body. Your body will only do what your brain commands it to. Once you are having mind blowing sex in your mind, you can start to have it in the bedroom. The confidence that you get from learning about your own needs will carry across to your expertise in the bedroom. You'll become the lover she's always wanted.

For all the information you want on how to be the best lover ever visit our information guide at Love-Talk.info We'll show you how to achieve the best results in bed and how to improve your abilities while increasing your size and stamina at the same time.
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